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My son was ran over by a drunk driver in 2006.  My son was air lifed to a local hospital were he underwent two emergency brain surgeries, facial reconstruction, repair of a broken nose, broken eye socket, broken hand, and a titanium plate had to be placed in his skull.   He laid in a coma for a week, and the ICU bill along with the rest of the bills, such as surgeons, xrays, cat scans, etc.  After leaving the hospital he had to have new teeth put in his mouth, and physical therapy and speach  therapy. This led to just over $150,000 worth of debt.  I'm happy to say that my son has recovered very well, except for the occasional seizure and/or headache.  We have never been victims of such a violent crime, and assumed the medical bills would be the responsibility of the person who harmed my son...wrong!  We were left with all of the medical bills, except for the $20,000 victims assistance gave to the hospital, and the small portion our car insurance carieer covered.  We are now faced with bad credit, and judgments, and just today found out my husbands check will be garnished.  Where is justice for families of crimes.  If anyone has any advice for me, I'd love too hear it.   The photo below was taken moments after my son woke from being in a coma.  

  

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Schmidty

You might try www.hrsa.gov/osp/dfcr/about/aboutdiv.htm  or phone 1-800-638-0742 or 1-800-492-0359 in MD

You can also call the state commissioner, state medical boards, state hmo boards, Center for Medicare Advocacy, Inc.( www.medicareadvocacy.org.), American Self Help Clearinghouse(www.mentalhelp.net/selfhelp) , National Self-Help Clearinghouse(www.selfhelpweb.org) and (www.patientadvocate.org) also (www.bff.org) and I have one more www.ohd.hr.state.or.us/ofhs .

Hope this helps, Good Luck and God Bless

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broker_becky
 in response to ekikaseven...   

We filed a claim with Progressive Insurance (the drivers insurance) however they never paid, and then they closed the claim.  We had a free attourney, a big shot in my area, and he didn't do crap, so I fired him.  Pretty bad when you fire a free attourney.  

 Where is the justice! Has anyone disputed Dr. bills on their credit, due to a crime, and had any luck??

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broker_becky
 in response to ekikaseven...   Victims assistance gave $20,000 to the hospital, and that didn't put a dent in the balance we owe.  we are thankful for the help though. 
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broker_becky
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ekikaseven

You can 'sue' the insurance company of the driver who hit your son.

You may want to consider bankruptcy to get from under alot of those bills.

Sorry this happened to your son.

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ekikaseven
 in response to Angels Over All...   

Is there a 'victim assistance program' in your area? Check with your district attorney in your area. They often offer short term funds.

best wishes

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Angels Over All

I truly feel your pain. My heart, soul, & Prayers gose out to you & your family. My husband was rob 8months ago. and when he did not give up his things fast enough the basterds shot him in the side. it shattered his pelvis, ruptured his bladder and landed above his rectum. the doctors said he is lucky to be walking. he is currently in therapy and we have to worry each and every time he goes to the bathroom because if blood is found in his urin or stool that's a sign of a problem. so far we have had that scare 4xs already. they have not foun the guys that did this. nor did anyone else give us any help either. But I am voicing my opinion to any and everyone that will listen.

So with the power of the internet, youtube, myspace, facebook and so on. get your voice heard. And for expenses ask your listerners to donate what they can to help support your cause.

I am a wife and mother of 9. I voice my opinion whenever and whereever I can. I was on the Tyra Show about Out spoken parents which will air in jan or feb 2010. So again get out there in tell your story to everyone.  Again God Bless You and your Family. Please feel free to contact me at anytime for support.

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